Tom Leu | Motivational Speaker, Author, Photographer, & Musician

Day 21: Clarity

Day 21 of "21 Days of Distinction"

The shot above was taken today, 12/31/10 at 5:45am. I got up, got dressed, got my gear, and headed out into the dark, foggy, morning. I had an intention and a purpose; as I have a vision and a voice.

So as I conclude these 21 days, I begin.

Starting in 2011, future entries within this blog will contain a blend of distinctions, revelations, and rants... in no particular order or priority.

You see, it’s no longer foggy inside.

I have clarity and I have the audacity

"Success" requires a willingness to go the extra miles.

I’m miles in and intend on continuing.

I hope you join me and I hope you enjoy me.

Either way, I’m moving on ("from town to town").

I will continue to use the vehicle of photography, the science of psychology, and the art of rock & roll as themes to communicate and illustrate my ideas, insights, and information.

My work here consists of putting:

1) Words to the pictures, 2) music to the messages, and then 3) speaking it to the masses.

Photography affords me opportunities to discover distinctions.

Photography helps me to not forget. Photography reminds me of the many details I may miss in the moment.

When I’m shooting, there’s always an element of unpredictability present that's exhilarating.

I never know exactly where I’ll end up or what I’ll see.

That's the perfect imperfection for me.

The serendipity inherent within photography is intoxicating.

Psychology helps me to sort it all out and understand the whys and why nots.

Music gives it all emotion and an edge.

So as I end these “21 Days of Distinction” I leave you with these final thoughts on the eve of a brand new year:

Pay attention to your attention.

Open up your eyes and ears and become (more) aware.

Notice opportunities. Notice obstacles.

Resolve to evolve.

“See things” for what they are, what they aren’t, and what they could be.

Pursue truth.

Go the extra mile… do what few others will do… be an exception... be exceptional!

→ Excerpt from the forthcoming book: "Seeing Things"... Passages of Perspective

©2010 Tom Leu

Day 20: Audacity

Day 20 of "21 Days of Distinction"

As another new year is about to begin, reflection inevitably sets-in for many. And I'm no exception…

For those who give a hoot... this new year will usher in an adjustment in my approach to my writings. Gone will be the deafening level of diplomacy. In its place will be an audacious and brazen approach to communicating my “seeing things” philosophy the “RockStar Way.”

Out goes the contrived consensus approach. In comes the more honest, edgy approach that more accurately portrays my personality. Like it, love it, or loathe it will make little difference in the delivery as I carry on undaunted. As I always implore, the time is now. It’s about action over apprehension.

You see, I've done it the way I've done it, and gotten what I've gotten. Good, but not great. But good isn’t good enough. I’m attracted to those who do what they say can’t be done. I’m attracted to those who dare to dream and put their authentic vision & voice out there. I’m attracted to great.

The Way I See It: Greatness is reserved for those who pursue it.

The content and core messages will remain largely unchanged. The vehicles and delivery methods will remain largely unchanged as well. What will primarily be changing is the tone, the timbre, and the style with which I communicate my messages. It will be less telling YOU thereby selling ME, and more telling ME thereby selling YOU.

Because you are me, and I am you. Because we're all more similar than different at the core.

I hope you choose to tune-in and share with others. If not, it’s all good.

Life is short. Have the audacity to be the best at what YOU do the best. Follow that path and don’t let anyone or anything deter you from your passions... not just on the eve of a new year, but all year long.

I’m practicing what I preach...

→ Excerpt from the forthcoming book: "Seeing Things"... Passages of Perspective

©2010 Tom Leu

Day 19: Taken For Granted

 Day 19 of "21 Days of Distinction"

I take a lot of things for granted at times if I'm being honest. I'm often in a hurry; busy thinking about myself and my stuff most of the time. As a result, I miss things sometimes. I think this is true for everyone... again if we're being honest.

The problem with this is obvious. Inherent to taking things for granted is overlooking much that deserves a second or third look perhaps. So much out there and within here deserves our attention. It's only when we slow down enough to pause and pay attention, do we really begin to notice. And it's this noticing through increased awareness that the magnificence of life becomes apparent. This concept is the engine that drives my photography, and the foundation through which I communicate my messages. Pay attention to your attention.

The Way I See It: Attentive perception precedes effective communication.

I've driven by the old abandoned gas station above countless times over the years. Only when I really looked at it and saw it for what it could be, did this ordinary scene have the potential to become extraordinary. So finally, on one cold and rainy evening, I sat and waited and shot until I felt I captured what I saw in my mind's eye. What I actually ended up with is better than what I imagined. Funny how that frequently happens provided I do my part first...

The rhetorical questions now also become obvious: How many other people, places, and things in our lives deserve another look? What addtional value is truly there provided we actively observe?

Ensuing perception that evolves into perspective is what truly "seeing things" is all about.

And gaining perspective, rather than taking for granted, is the whole point.

→ Excerpt from the forthcoming book: "Seeing Things"... Passages of Perspective

©2010 Tom Leu

Day 18: Move

Day 18 of "21 Days of Distinction"

It's so easy to be a pessimist. It's so easy to be negative. It's so easy to jump on the complain train. How come?

Why is it so easy to focus on and embrace the bad stuff more than the good stuff sometimes? Managing loss, by choice, has become an art form for many. Much more challenging is the choice to search for solutions.

The Way I See It: Life is too long to wallow in the past negative, and too short to procrastinate the present positive.

The beginning of a new year births the anticipation that things will be OK... that things will be better... that things will be good. Choosing this unspoken optimism enforces those feelings and influences those outcomes throughout the rest of the year.

Now is the time to act on them...

Your move.

→ Excerpt from the forthcoming book: "Seeing Things"... Passages of Perspective

©2010 Tom Leu