Huff and Puff

Tom Leu, MS | 13 July 2014 | Communications, talk shiFt | 0 Comments    | 519 Total Post Views

huff-and-puffWhile purposely rolling your eyes, squirming in your seat, huffing and puffing in apparent strong disagreement with another person’s comments, positions, or points-of-view, at least have the nuts to speak up when asked to share YOUR views. Otherwise, blow it out your ass…

Look, there’s no honor in being a dick, but choosing to sit there silently verbal, but with annoyingly loud non-verbals, your pathetic demonstration of passive aggression actually pales in comparison to your blaring lack of BALLS.

The shiFt:

  1. Disagree? Good, actually. Speak-the-fuck-up then.
  2. Just do it in the best way the particular situation you’re in calls for. Yes, this is a subjective, gray area that’s not a one-size-fits-all. That’s why this stuff is scary hard, and not everyone is nearly as good at it as they think they are.
  3. So instead of huffing and puffing, start studying strategies of communications transactional analysis via principles of Communichology™ available all over this site. Do something different, and you might just get a different outcome.

Agree or disagree; just no apathy.

Stay tuned-in…

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